Community
Life
“The
world is so empty if one thinks only of mountains, rivers & cities; but to
know someone who thinks & feels with us, & who, though distant, is
close to us in spirit, this makes the earth for us an inhabited garden.”
― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
― Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
The first thing that I noticed when I
stepped on ‘kwaDabekan’ soil, was the warm “Sawbona”,“Yebos” or bright smiles
we received from the inhabitants! I think that it is vitally important not to
forget that we are assisting the community with our skills and knowledge which
I call ‘blending in’. We can only do so by getting to know the people, their
culture and the structure by which the community functions.
The first uncomfortable thing I
felt was the incredible heat! There was no way of escaping it! That could have
also been the reason as to why there were such few people to be seen! We were
given the opportunity to walk along the road for a while. It was at a robot
where I saw a familiar face coming up to me and greeting me by my first name!
Xolani!...an old school friend. I had seen him on our campus before but I did
not know that he was from the area. He told me that he was running a business
up the street which he is very excited about!
Talking about businesses in the
community, there are tons! They range from small things such as sweets to animals
and car parts. What I also noticed was how many pubs there were in such a small
circumference. I am assuming that a great deal of socialising goes on in there
in the afternoons. The main form of transport that was evident were taxis.
We
also go to meet the councillor, Bongani Gumede. He said that in the upcoming
year their aim will be to equip young people with relevant skills, which in his opinion, is
what South Africa needs to fight the poverty. It is good to have been
introduced to Mr Gumede because I am sure that somewhere along the way of our
community work, we will require his assistance in whatever we are planning to
do.
In order to work successfully with the
people in kwaDabeka and other communities, it is vitally important to get to know the people a little
better. By this I mean spending time with the people, getting to know the communities
culture, their beliefs, their strengths and weaknesses. This can only be done
by spending sufficient time with them, which is what we are planning on doing
today! I am really looking forward to mixing and mingling with the people! It
is so important to learn how a community functions before one start with
programmes and the likes.
Like Goethe said, “...to know someone who thinks & feels with us, & who, though distant, is close to us in spirit, this makes the earth for us an inhabited garden.”
We were also introduced to people such as Daniel (living with CP) and Joe (immigrant from US) who told us about their unique experiences in the communities as a disabled and as a total foreigner! This was highly interesting to hear about their perspectives and their thoughts and feeling about certain things. Daniels story touched me the most because as I was listening to him, it became pretty clear to me that his needs are very similar to yours and mine. They are a longing for love and recognition. This just showed me again that even though people are disabled, they still have a heart and a soul that needs to be looked after.
What a busy but informative week it was!
I think this is a post you should read frequently, because it gives such a good account of how you felt at the very beginning of this year. And with each passing step, you are growing and learning more. Will be great if you can find your friend again, and whether he is living in KwaDabeka, and what his daily life is like. Also to get to know more about the people who are living here.
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